30 Things to do this Spring

 Heddo!

As spring approaches its always great to get a list of the great things to do! Here is a list of 30 little things to do in the Spring 

1. play in the puddles
2. read in the sun 
3. have snack time outside 
4. chaise butterflies
5. try out a kite
6. snuggle under a light blanket
7. sleep on a hemic 
8. take the puppy out to play 
9. make mud pies 
10. color with the window open 
11. lil journal about the frogs
12. plant some flowers
13. dance to up beat music
14. walk through the new flowers
15. take pictures in the sun 
16. wear thin comfy clothes
17. get a fancy drink and sit outside to enjoy it 
18. go to a farmer market and get your face painted
19. go to the drive in 
20. have a picnic!
21. go to the park and swing 
22. enjoy a grill cheese on national grill cheese day 
23. have your CG hid eggs and go hunting 
24. make a nature journal with pictures and colorings 
25. make a bird feeder with seeds and a pinecone 
26. blow bubbles
27. go to the library and find books on spring 
28. go to a lake and enjoy the nice breeze 
29. go fishing 
30. spring clean 

I hope this list give a few cute idea for how to make spring a little brighter with you and your CG. 

Enjoy the nice weather in a few more hours of sunlight!

Warmth and Sunshine,

Pannyboi41

Nap Time or Bed Time Routine

 Hello again,

So I didn't really have a good idea but I just woke up from a nap so I thought it would be a good idea to write about naps and bedtime. These are both very important to a little and they need to be taken care of with a lot of respect and loveliness. 

1. have a healthy meal or snack before getting to bed
2. start with a bath or shower -- warm-up before hitting the hay
3.  if it is bedtime make sure to take your meds -- sometimes we littles forget
4. read a nice story -- nothing scary or worrisome just a nice little story to put your mind at ease
5. tuck your stuffies in -- they need to be cuddled up too
6. listen to a soft song or white noise -- this will really help a little fall right to sleep
7. layer the blankets -- this is great if you don't have a weighted blanket but if you do use that 
8. drink some water -- this will have you sleep and not feel so hungry if you wake up in the middle of the night 
9. keep the room cool -- this will make sure you sleep better
10. go to the bathroom -- don't want to wake up having to pee 
11. tuck yourself in -- or have your CG do it 
12. cover in kisses -- these are the most important part kisses for both you and your stuffies 

This is just a small start everyone should have a routine before bed to make sure you get good sleep no matter where you are or who you are with. This is called sleep hygiene and it is really helpful especially if you have depression, bipolar, more many other health concerns. It's also good for just about everyone because it leads to better sleep.

Sleeps and Naps,

Pannyboi41

Cooking Time Once Again

 Hello Hello,

I really didn't know what to do for this week's post so I went with a good standby: cooking. I personally love to cook and with the help of my daddy, I feel like I can create anything. So here a few more spring-like recipes for you and your CG to make. 

Spring Salad

I personally like my salad simply made make sure to get the CG's help for this one as there is cutting involved

1. cut up lettuce - I personally love sprint mix especially for this salad and most of the time it doesn't need to be cut
2. cut tomatoes and cucumber into small parts - for little mouths 
3. cut some papers - strips are best in this salad
4. add some pickles and papers - I love some spice and these add a good tang 
5. Top with ham, cheese, and turkey roll-ups - roll the meat together and cut into strips
6. Add some dressing - a light dressing is best for this heavy salad
7. Top with something crunchy - could be croutons or seeds whatever you like  

French Fries for a cold day 

one of my absolute favorites

1. have your CG cut up some potatoes into small strips
2. coat the strips in oil and season with pepper salt dill and rosemary (fresh if its growing in your herb garden)
3. bake at 425 degrees for 25-30 minutes
4. serve with ketchup and mustard 

Milky 

1. use 1 cup of any type of milk - almond, regular, or rice
2. add a little coffee mix to it for a tiny bit of flavor about 0.5 of a teaspoon
3. add about 1 tablespoon of chocolate syrup 
4. mix with a whisk until very frothy and combined well
5. service ice cold to little grabby hands with whipped cream and sprinkles 

I hope these are a few good recipes to make with your caregiver and little alike I hope you enjoy and find your own things to make!

Love and Foodies,

Pannyboi41

How To Keep a Fussy Little Happy

 Hi there all,

I have been rather fussy lately and it not only has been making it hard to live as a happy little but it is making my daddy sad too, so I decided to write a little about what you can do to make a fussy little happy or at least busy so they don't focus on the fussy times. 

• give them a task - something simple and little 
• have them color you a picture - this will keep them busy
• have them hold their stuffies as hard as they can - this can release some stress and make them feel secure
• play some soft music - music can be really impactful some soft music can really help a little mind calm down
• put on a show - great when you are too busy to keep them entertained
• spend some quality time together - make cookies or watch a movie allow them to relax with you
• let them know they are loved - this can remind them that they don't need to be fussy
• give them a bath - very relaxing (see post on baths)
• read to them or have them read to you - it will keep their mind off the fussy stuff
• show them a cute video or silly song - something to make them smile
• put them down for a nap - sometimes a fussy little is a tired little tuck them in and let them rest
• let them talk it out - maybe something happened and they just need to share

I hope this little list helps when that little one is acting up!

Crowns and Crows.

Pannyboi41

Having and Asexual Little

 Hi there,

Sorry about last week I was feeling so cruddy that I didn't want to post. But this week is better and Daddy had a great idea foe this week. As someone that now identifies as Asexual (most likely because of a medication change but we don't know for sure) I wanted to write a little bit about being an asexual little.

It can be really challenging being a asexual little with a daddy that isn't. What has worked for us is communication. For me I am a sex positive little, this means I am totally okay with sex and that I am willing to still perform the act. Some asexuals are not okay with sex and that might be hard for a CG. This could mean the CG needs to change or that maybe the relationship wont work (sadly). But as I have found out sex isn't everything and it's nice to take sometime to do things that aren't sex based. This could be learning more about yourself or your CG. I for one have found talking to be the most relaxing thing I can do with my CG. For use this works well. Sometimes we do have sex but it isn't a top priority we spend more time laughing and talking and enjoying each other in other ways. 

So to take care of an asexual little:

• ask -- what they feel and need 
• spend some time doing other things -- just because this is a BDSM type relationship doesn't mean its all sex all the time there are still so many activities one can do that still falls under BDSM
• punishments that aren't sexual 
• little time outside the bedroom 
• spend some time doing sensual acts that don't always lead to sex 
• baths
• chaining clothes 
• diaper chaining
• Let your little know how you feel too -- its important to communicate what ever that may look like but your needs are just as important as theirs
• don't push -- NO MEANS NO, things may change so be ready for feelings to change when it comes to sex 
• communication is key -- can't say it enough 

I know this isn't much but hopefully this helps a little if your asexual little comes out to you. Just make sure everyone is comfortable, and happy in the relationship what ever that may look like for you all.

Pride and Pure Love,

Pannyboi41

 

Valentine's Day

 Happy Day to All!

As Valentine's day approaches I wanted to write a little on how to make this day special for your littles and bigs alike. 

• make it as special as you want - some people love this day others don't care about it make it your own
• get some candy - chocolate or sour gummies whatever you like but candy is a big part of it
• make or get a card - CG love homemade but sometimes a good old school car is a great gift
• stuffies - they are a great cute gift and littles love them 
• dress up - even if you aren't going out sometimes its fun to dress up for each other especially with LDR
• this would be a great day to share your love - as this is the day of love its a great day to make sure your little or CG knows just how much you love them 
• sexy time - not everyone is into it but make it special maybe some cute undies or a special activity
• kisses and cuddles  - share some special moments together be it a big kiss or just some old school cuddles 
• watch a love movie - this can be something like the "notebook" or just a movie you two love
• gifts -  these can be anything really flowers or candies or new books and a sweater 
• make sure you love your friends too - they mean just as much as your love so share some love with your friends and family 

I hope you have a great day no matter how you decide to celebrate maybe a movie and some candy over voice chat. 

LOVE and ALL,

Pannyboi41

100th Post!

 Hello,

So this is really cool because we have reached 100 posts! So for this I will be writing about the little way of getting to bed as I am really sleepy today.

• take a relaxing bath or shower - make sure you are nice and clean
• make sure to take you medication - this is really important 
• drink a cup of water - this will make your skin all nice and healthy
• have a small snack - only if you are hungry and nothing to heavy
• read something happy - don't get those text books out just allow yourself to relax with a good story
• wear your favorite pjs - maybe those cute little ones with the stripes
• brush your teeth and hair - make sure to get the backs of those teeth and 100 strokes for those princesses and princes
• say goodnight to your stuffies - they say goodnight too
• say goodnight to your CG - maybe make a video call
• snuggle under your favorite blanket - or maybe a few blankets at least where I am it's freezing 
• watch a little show - dont stay up to late
• set your alarm - I tend tot forget this lol
• put on your night light - the dark can be scary sometimes 
• get your booty to sleep - night night 

Have a sweet night little one :3