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Tuesday, December 3, 2019

Steps of Collaring (NSFW)

There you are!
Sorry I missed you last week it was crazy!! Anyway, I wanted to do a special dirty post this week because I was feeling it so here we go...

This week is about the collaring system used in BDSM (not all doms/subs do this but I thought it was interesting):


  1. Collar of Consideration
    1. this is for early couples were the BDSM relationship is under consideration, this collar is easily removed if the relationship is not working
  2. Training Collar
    1. this is the next step after the collar of consideration, this a symbol of training and where they are in a relationship 
  3. Protection Collar
    1. ownership collar showing they have a master and should be left alone by other dominates but it doesn't have the same "weight" as the collar of consideration or training collar, but it still means that that dominate has some responsibility for the submissive 
  4. Play Collars
    1. They are relaxed and mostly just worn for scenes and may prepare the submissive for playtime as they know once it is put on they should be in the correct headspace for play (this can be worn by someone wearing another collar) it tends to have a D ring and is a symbol of the power exchange 
  5. Permanent/Slave Collar
    1. this is the last collar saying that the D/S relationship is permanent THIS IS LIKE A WEDDING BAND AND SHOULD BE TAKEN SERIOUSLY!!!! Some wear a piece of jewelry that they don't take off or it has a lock that only the dom can remove. This piece tends not to come off for any reason. If it does come off it means the relationship is over or the D/S side is over/taking a break
  6. House Collar
    1. In some clubs or "houses" (BDSM houses) you can wear a particular collar meaning you are under the protection of the house and should be left alone similar to a protection collar
  7. Dom/Sub Created Collars
    1. the dom/sub can decide on a collar and what it means and the rules associated with it
Like with any part of the BDSM community not everyone follows the same rules and even some DDLG/DDLB/CGL relationships aren't NSFW so just make sure to be kind and understanding to everyone in our community.

Love, Collars, and Protection,
Pannyboi41 


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