Happy New Year and a New Adventure!

HAPPY NEW YEAR EVE!!!!!!!
I just wanted to wish everyone a happy new year and hope you get that little kiss you have been waiting for even if it's just from your favorite stuffie at 10 o'clock when your caregiver has set your bedtime.
Anyway... GOOD NEWS!
I'm heading off this Saturday to see my daddy and I am sooooooooo excited! We are going to celebrate our anniversary (which was 12/21), my daddy's birthday and Christmas all in one!! I am so ready to see him its been like 6 months and its been way way way to long. I have some really special gifts for daddy and he said he would take me to see the butterfly garden at the museum and to my favorite soup place and the mall and be in the hot tub and the movies and the book store and just all the fun places some we went last time and new ones and I just can't wait!! I am just so excited to be with my daddy finally! Even f we just have fun at his house I will be so so so happy. He said we would have a little day and I even get to give him a spa day because he deserves to be pampered just like he does to me. Anyway I can't wait to update you all on all the fun we are going to have and all the greatness to come!
Next week I will not be posting but the week after, get ready for the long one!!

LOVE and HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!!!
Pannyboi41

A Little Holiday Magic

Hello!
Just a little note to say Happy Holidays to all my littles and CareGivers! I hope you all got what you wished for this holiday season or are going to get it (depending on when you celebrate). I know I got what I have always wished for and that is a perfect daddy that loves knows me through and through (he got me an amazing gift that I could open in front of my parents). I hope you all have similar experiences or at least have the time to enjoy with the ones you love and the ones that love you. Anyway just a quick message to say hello and happy season. I'll see you next time with a little more holiday cheer.

Happy Times and Little Magic,
Pannyboi41 and their Daddy

My Letter to Santa

Happy Holidays!
So I have been sad lately and ill so I decided to make myself feel better I will share my letter to Santa with you all.

Dear Santa,
I hope I have been a good little one this year, I think I have and Daddy can vouch for me I promise!!!
So if I deserve the presents I would like:

• a onesie -- I don't have one but a purple one with elephants or otter would be perfect
• a new paci --  the two I have are getting old and a purple one would be cute
• a rainbow tutu -- something to wear at pride with daddy
• new crayons -- the ones I have are not so good 
• stickers! -- my favorite
• more stuffies!!! -- no these are my favorite
• cloth nappies -- I only need a few pairs as I don't "use" them they just make me comfy
• things to put in my journal -- maybe small coloring pages or activities?
• candy -- the chewy kind, please 
• a crown -- daddy says I a princex
• storybook -- so daddy can read to me more
• to be with daddy more -- I miss him, he is too far away
• for daddy to always be happy -- he deserves it the most 

I hope I have been good and have a safe journey this year, the cookies and milk are waiting for you and I will put out carrots too for the dear!

Happy Christmas!

Pannyboi41

A New Project -- My Little Journal

I hope you all had a good day!!
So I recently read a post on Instagram about someone that does journaling based on their regression, and I thought that was an amazing idea!!!!!!!! So I collected many ideas from all over the internet and put them together for you!!

 What you need:

1. journal -- I use a journal with no lines but I like to draw so that just me, I do have to say make sure its big enough and is something you will want to work in everyday 
2. Coloring utensils -- I use pens and crayons and marker, just anything you like!
3. Stickers!!!!!!! 
4. Coloring pages, work pages or fun pages 

What to put in your journal:

• self-care idea/tips
• chore/self-care/schedule chart or checklist
• little me bio
• favorite song list
• stories that you make up
• favorite song list
• dreams (either real or the ones you have at night)
• if you had a bunch of money where would it go/ what would you spend it on?
• games to play
• draw your dream paci/outfit/little room
• doodles
• things to buy (or for your CG to buy)
• playdate ideas
• movies to watch when little or with CG
• design a new animal/plant/planet
• facts about your favorite little subject
• favorite nicknames/names to be called when little
• likes/dislikes list
• word searches or games
• coloring pages
• CG rules 
• rules for your CG
• the perfect CG outline
• Ispy every letter of the alphabet 
• sticker page
• list of favorites and hates (especially in little space)
• envelope with small favorite things inside (or things you find while exploring)
• self-love or self-care exercises 
• wish list
• regression help list 
• make scenes for paper dolls 
• stuffie profiles 
• good day/best day outline list
• make your own crest
• cartoon list
• guide to taking care of little me
• desires 
• things to do with CG
• what to do when I'm sick page
• adventure page (either real or imaginary or ones to go on)
• limits
• aftercare ideas
• what I need to improve on 
• rewards and punishments
• how to be little without daddy around 
• little things needed/wanted
• how to take care of a CG
• blog ideas :)
• sad day fixes
• cosplay/lolita/design ideas 
• general tips for being little 

Hopefully this gets you started on your own little journal!!

Pannyboi41

Steps of Collaring (NSFW)

There you are!
Sorry I missed you last week it was crazy!! Anyway, I wanted to do a special dirty post this week because I was feeling it so here we go...

This week is about the collaring system used in BDSM (not all doms/subs do this but I thought it was interesting):

1. Collar of Consideration
1. this is for early couples were the BDSM relationship is under consideration, this collar is easily removed if the relationship is not working
2. Training Collar
1. this is the next step after the collar of consideration, this a symbol of training and where they are in a relationship 
3. Protection Collar
1. ownership collar showing they have a master and should be left alone by other dominates but it doesn't have the same "weight" as the collar of consideration or training collar, but it still means that that dominate has some responsibility for the submissive 
4. Play Collars
1. They are relaxed and mostly just worn for scenes and may prepare the submissive for playtime as they know once it is put on they should be in the correct headspace for play (this can be worn by someone wearing another collar) it tends to have a D ring and is a symbol of the power exchange 
5. Permanent/Slave Collar
1. this is the last collar saying that the D/S relationship is permanent THIS IS LIKE A WEDDING BAND AND SHOULD BE TAKEN SERIOUSLY!!!! Some wear a piece of jewelry that they don't take off or it has a lock that only the dom can remove. This piece tends not to come off for any reason. If it does come off it means the relationship is over or the D/S side is over/taking a break
6. House Collar
1. In some clubs or "houses" (BDSM houses) you can wear a particular collar meaning you are under the protection of the house and should be left alone similar to a protection collar
7. Dom/Sub Created Collars
1. the dom/sub can decide on a collar and what it means and the rules associated with it

Like with any part of the BDSM community not everyone follows the same rules and even some DDLG/DDLB/CGL relationships aren't NSFW so just make sure to be kind and understanding to everyone in our community.

Love, Collars, and Protection,

Pannyboi41