Presents!!

Good Evening!
So at it is my birthday month daddy and I decided that writing out a gift list would be a cute idea, so... here we go! Great for Christmas, Birthdays, Anniversaries, Any Holiday or just a cute gift, this gift list has it all!

Gifts for Caregivers:

• A gift card to a place they like or out to food for two!- get to know your dom through their favorite store or type of food
• Get something useful for them- maybe something for the kitchen or a place to keep their keys
• A piece for their collection or a new addition to their hobby- learn about their passion and get something to go along with it, even if it isn't exactly right they will be happy you tried
• Maybe a piece of clothing or new shoes- find sneaky ways of getting sizes and that perfect shirt or nice pair of trainers
• Funny/Fun gifts- get them something silly that will make both of you happy when they see it, maybe a fake Harry Potter wand or goofy undergarments something that will put a nice smile on their face
• Gift Baskets- everyone loves many gifts in one pick a theme and roll with it
• Something Naughty!- Try some new lube or a type of condom, or maybe step up the game with a crop and paddle set or even a sexy outfit for you so you can be their gift this year. 
• HOMEMADE- its a prove fact caregivers love homemade presents (I don't make the rules)

Gifts for Littles:

• Almost anything above!
• Anything Cute
• Anything Sparkly 
• Anything Colorful
• Anything to Play With
• New Sippies and Pacis 
• New PJ's are a must!
• Something special to wear out, be it a necklace, shoes, dress or tie just something to feel special in
• Upgrade their collar 
• Get them that thing they have been eyeing -- you know, that thing!
• Try new foods from the international sections especially candy 
• Get them something to wear for you- sexy, sexy
• Take them on a shopping trip
• Fun little books and movies 
• A night in where you cook together and enjoy each other 
• Fun stuff for the bath 
• Any little item mentioned in other posts 
• A new friend, I always love new stuffies 
• Homemade stuff littles love!

Just remember its the thought that counts, I know no matter what your caregiver/little will love what you give even if it means a special night of naughty fun, as long as you gave it some thought and love everyone will enjoy!

Giving and Getting,

Pannyboi41

I Have a Concussion

Hiya,
I got a concussion so it's hard for me to be on my computer, but I still wanted to talk with everyone cause I have been missing my little friends and times with you.

So because I can't think of much to write I'll add some of my favorite little food recipes for when I don't feel good:

Sick Day Chicken Soup:

• two cooked chicken breasts
• 3 cups chicken stock
• 2 big carrots 
• 3 celery sticks
• 1/2 onion
• 1 cup noodles or rice 
• garlic, salt, pepper to taste
• I love adding some spice to help open up my nose with pepper flakes (the ones on pizza)
• dried herbs like rosemary, thyme, and sage  (go light)
• optional: lemon juice 

cut all the veggies and add to the boiling broth

once starting to soften add the chicken to warm along with the herbs such

turn off the heat and add the rice or noodles and let sit until cooked through 

optional: add lemon the each serving

Nighty-time drink

• 1 cup milk
• 1 tsp honey
• 2 drops vanilla 
• 1 pinch cinnamon

heat milk in a microwave until really warm stir in honey and vanilla then add the cinnamon on top 

Simple Fruit Yogurt

• 1 cup plain yogurt
• 1/2 cup frozen then partially thawed strawberries, blueberries, raspberries, and mangos
• 1 cup cut-up pineapple
• 1 tbs of sliced almonds
• banana chips

put yogurt in a bowl add the other things on top --  eat slowly 

There are more but maybe ill add those next week, my eyes are starting to hurt from my computer 

Until then,

Stay you Stay you Stay you,

I'm Not Feeling Good...So Spam!

Hi,
So I haven't been feeling good so here is a bunch of cute spam

With Loves and Hugs,
Pannyboi41

Self Care- A Little in a Big World

Hiya,
Being a college student working on their master's degree living so far away from their daddy I find myself not really caring for the body and mind I have. I thought it would be a good idea for not only you but for me to write down a few self-care tips that are not only great for littles but caregivers alike:

• For Littles:
• make sure to take a bath or shower every day the warm water can awaken and relax and cold water can renew and close pores
• brush your teeth twice a day and floss a least once
• Wear some scent to make you feel cute 
• brush up your hair you don't want those knots getting in the way of your adorable face
• take time to have fun -- play with your stuffies or maybe a cool video game
• meditate or pray a little time to think things through can really relax the mind
• write in a journal or start a blog, writing can also ease the brain 
• maybe read a fun book NO homework reading allowed
• spend that hour doing absolutely nothing be mindless on TV or the internet 
• exercise or simply take a walk get outside and breath that air
• talk to a good friend that isn't your caregiver
• find a cool unique hobby or make something that makes you feel good  
• eat healthily but treat yourself once in a while 
• maybe got to church or practice meditation with others 
• join a club and meet new people 
• if you need help ask for it even it that means using a texting counseling services something is better than nothing 
• and make sure to check on your care-giver to see if they are doing these things too they will be happy you care 
• DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY, HEALTHY AND SAFE
• For Bigs:
• Mostly the same but remember you are making rules for your little so add some self-care to that list and make sure they keep themselves happy and healthy

I know you have probably seen this a million times but as a social work student I think it is important to know and see and practice -- I know I need to work on it and maybe you do too and that's okay we aren't perfect but we can work at being better than the day before.

Good Luck and Good Cupcakes,

Pannyboi41

 

A Daddy Post

Pannyboi41 Here, I havent been feeling well and I asked daddy to write a little something for you...

Hello all my name is thekuma and I’m pannyboi41’s daddy. I couldn’t be happier to call them my little buggy and we make quite a pair. From the first time I saw them I just knew that I was made to protect, cherish and love them for my whole life. And even though we’re farther apart then we’d like to be we will always do our best for each other and to make everything work!! The moral to all of this is daddy’s love your little ones with all you’ve got and littles be good for your daddy’s and know that even though that some of you are in long-distance relationships and things seem dark sometimes always be each other’s light and don’t let the distance get you down 

TheKuma 

(I Love you Daddy,

Pannyboi41)

Reading Together

Hi There,
So lately things have been going smoothly and life is going well for both daddy and me. It's nice to not have to worry, it makes things "boring" but I would rather be bored than worried or thinking that something is going wrong in our relationship. As I said before we entered the next phase in life together and even though it can become redundant I find it comforting and homey -- like I always know what to expect and do not fear the unknowing of a new relationship. In past relationships I hated this part and would end up doing many things I regretted but with my daddy something is different maybe its because of distance or because this relationship is just healthier and I find more pleasure and peace in it, but I don't feel the need to find the newness of a relationship again. I also seemed to be chasing that high that comes with a new love or crush that first few times talking used to be my favorite and I would end up cheating just to get that rush and newness, but as I said with my daddy I don't feel the need to find that newness and I find that to be the most comforting experience of my life. SO anyway enough about my troubled past you came here for fun and little talk. One thing daddy and I have been doing is reading to each other (mostly daddy reading to me). My daddy has never ready Harry Potter before so we decided to start there and read all the books together. So far this has been truly amazing and something I feel all long-distance (and non-LDR) should do. It's easy and fun and most books can be found as PDFs online now so you can even take turns on who is reading. I know my daddy loves to dear me read to him and I enjoy it just the same. To me it makes me feel like he is closer and almost like we are in the same bed together and he is reading to me before we fall asleep -- a comforting homey lovely feeling if I do say so myself. My advice, pick up a book even a children's book and read to your little -- I know for a fact they will love it!

Respect and Kisses,
Pannyboi41

Second Real Fight and Heading Back to School Soon

UwU!
Greetings my lovelies so sad news daddy and I had a sort of fight thing last night. It most comprised of a few things being said and both of use getting emotional and upset. It ended though last night which is always for the best never go to bed angry or upset they say. It was hard but we both decided we have to better for each other and learn from this time. I believe this is an important part of any relationship, even if it hurt before we can learn and move forward.

On a different note, I am heading back to school in a few weeks (yay)! This means my schedule will be better and I should be able to write about relationships, little loves, big rules, and anything else you want to know about more frequently. Hopefully, I'll have more to say as time goes on even if it just a little hello from your friendly neighborhood little fluid flux baby otter. 

Sorry for the super lame post it will be better I promise and don't hesitate to comment on what you want to see!

Little hugs and Big kisses,
Pannyboi41