So I was talking to my dada and he had the idea of telling the world how a little would like to be cared for especially long-distance so here we go:
- good morning and goodnight text/calls are VERY important! -- make sure your little knows that you are the first thing you think of in the morning and the last thing you think of before bed
- make sure you give them fair rules that work for long-distance -- this can be a challenge and Daddy and I are still trying to work this out but littles love rules
- text and call whenever you can -- I know this can be hard but remember your little is always waiting to hear from you so don't make them wait too long
- ask them about their day -- I love when daddy does this, especially on days where we cant text or call too much it makes me feel like daddy really wants to know whats going on
- have you little send you pictures -- of food, flower, stuffies their toes whatever your little will love sending pictures all-day
- if you need to do anything set them up with a project or video -- I know daddies have to do things so have your little do a project or have them watch something so they are busy while you are
- make sure to look and comment on ALL of their colorings, journals, project, etc. -- littles need to know that their work is good and that our CG cares about what we create and do
- do check-ins -- ask your little what they are doing, eating, feeling, needing
- send them some love -- with long-distance, make sure to send a little love either through a card or gift just because you love them
- punish when needed -- if your little breaks a rule make sure to punish them accordingly this can be sexual and non-sexual depending on the relationship and rules
- make sure your little is taking care of themselves -- through eating and bathing and self-care
- make sure your little is taking care of their stuffies -- very important for your little and their stuffies
- give them treats! -- littles deserve love and treats
- help them through anything -- not every moment is going to be easy or happy for a little so make sure to help them through the negative stuff the best you can together
- GIVE THEM ALL THE LOVE -- hugs and kisses and hearts and happiness and love!!!!
I hope learning from a little is helpful in making caring for you little even easier
The Best for you and your little,
Pannyboi41
PS- Happy PRIDE all!
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