More of the Slump

Good Afternoon (well afternoon here),
So as the summer drags on daddy and I haven't really done anything too new or exciting sadly. I just work way too much and have only had about 12 days off in total since I started my job (that includes ones I haven't had yet). But the good thing is we are both still healthy and doing our best to stay connected and have fun all the while. Lately, we have been mostly talking about the things we like and sharing stupid memes with each other. I think we have taken that step out of the "honeymoon phase" and into the I'm going to be my true silly self and I know you will fully except that. Sadly, most people don't make it out of the honeymoon phase well and end up find faults and problems with their partner but luckily we have made it out strong and probably even more happy then we were before because we are fully honest with each other now. Anyway, not really fun cute little things but even the best CG/L relationships are still relationships and go through the same phases like every other relationship. Anyway the slump; ways to try to break free from that is:

• make sure you are taking care fo each other -- I know daddies are great at this but even daddies need to be reminded to drink water sometimes and this might take your CG off guard but it will remind them that they don't always have to be doing all the care 
• send a funny cute thing out of nowhere -- something they might see and be reminded of how cute their little is
• maybe read to your daddy for a change instead of them reading to you -- use your cute voice and read a short story 
• make something together -- get a lego kit or a craft and spend even an hour being together making something to show off
• go somewhere new -- this doesn't have to coast money but maybe go to the animal shelter or a second-hand store just change it up 
• try learning a language together and help each other with conversation
• have your caregiver do little things with you -- instead of doing them with the caregiver watching or working invite them to your tea party or color or just play
• On a naughty note: sometimes just some good discipline will help not punishment but just a good rough session to let out some emotion, also maybe getting a new "plaything" will also spice things up a little (always remember to be safe and use your safeword)

There are many more things just try something new and it can lead to a world of fun and get you two out of that slump. 

Love and Play,

Pannyboi41

Nothing Much Sadly

Hi There,
I know I haven't posted in a while and my last post was sort of lame but sadly life is sort of lame right now. Daddy and I are working a lot and he is currently attending some college courses online so he is always really busy. For a little like me, this makes things really hard but I would like to throw out some ideas that make me feel better when daddy feels father then states away:

• I make sure to always wear a day collar, I have two currently one for work that was my first and a classier one and sometimes I wear my play collars if I'm alone 
• Send letters and colorings to my daddy, its cheap to send a letter so why not send one with something special inside
• Take a bath, I do this almost every day but it makes me feel little and makes my day just a little bit easier
• Snuggle snuggle snuggle, when I was in Texas I got a few new stuffies and I keep them on my bed just to give them snuggles when I am really missing daddy or just need to feel something cuddly
• Buy yourself a little something, make sure to ask your caregiver but buying something special for yourself can make things a little easier it could be a special snack or a new book/toy
• Dress up even if it's just cute socks, at work I have to wear a uniform which I find so stupid especially because I am gender queer (fluidflux) so wearing the same thing can be really uncomfortable but I can always wear cute socks that make me feel little and help with my gender pains
• Make something, I love cooking so after asking I try my hand a new recipe or improve one so that I can cook for my daddy when we finally live together
• Take care of something, just like your caregiver takes care of you you can take care of something too, I have this little pepper plant Pepe and I love him he lives outside and I check on him all the time and I am so excited to see him grow, maybe try your hand at a fish or plant or even just making sure all your stuffies are happy or even an online pet like a webkinz
• Do what makes you happy, as always when you feel alone do something that makes you happy from reading to music to art to running even if it isn't a little activity I know your caregiver will be proud and happy to hear that you had a good day and you didn't spend that entire time missing them ( just make sure you are safe)

As Always Be Yourself!

Pannyboi41

Sorry for the Long Wait -- An Updated

Hi Friends,
I just wanted to send out a little update about what's been going on with me and my dada. So I got a job it's super lame and makes me soooo sleepy every night and just is a super burden on my life and I HATE IT! I'm a host at my local diner and its long hours and I never have a normal schedule and its just the poops and is really hard on my body. This has really been bad for daddy and me. It makes it hard to talk with each other or have time to spend together, but we do our best to call every night still and communicate as much as we can even though I can't text at work. Also last week I got a super bad illness where I lost my voice and had a fever and really sore throat and cough and all the nasty stuff. This was really had for us as I couldn't talk to my daddy and he really missed me because I was sleeping all the time. So that why I have been gone so long but hopefully I will get back into it and have more to say about our adventures so stay tuned.

Always Stay Cute,
Pannyboi41