I know I haven't done this in a LONG time but I wanted to share some advice with you all that I found out this week as I had a stressful and long annoying week.
As a little in college on their final year with only 28 days until graduation I find myself in very stressful and non-little friendly environments, This week was one of those weeks. Not only was I ill but everyone seemed to want to have a meeting with me or talk with me or give me more work then the already crazy days I have, anyway I digress, now to the reason for the rant:
When littles get fussy about big people things the best an LDR caregiver can do I found is this:
- let them rant without saying anything constructive just let them get it all out without interruptions or the feeling the CG is trying to fix everything
- Once they get it out ask if they want advice or if they just want the CG's,simple love
- give them what they asked for (somethings may not require advice it could have just been a long day)
- let them be little for as long as possible - one of the reasons we get so fussy is because we don't get to be little during the day and release some of the stress that is building up
- Be as loving as possible (not hard for most CG)
- do some stress relief things with them such as coloring listening to music and even naughty time
- bring coloring things, most people do this now anyway
- bring a small stuffy with you and take a break in the bathroom and hold it for a minute can really relieve some stress
- listen to Disney or other little songs on your phone
- Watch a little show when waiting easy to hide on a small phone
- talk with your caregiver and be little with them over text
- use a cute water bottle and cute lunch box
- bring a little magazine or book and if people ask tell them you are reading them to make sure they are good for your child or niece
- write cute letters to your GC
I hope these helped!
With Sunshine,
Pannyboi41
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